Mome Mahlangu, a reality television star and stylist, made her first public appearance ten years ago. A great deal has changed since then, and to her credit, she is going to be published.
Her career in the entertainment business began in 2007, when she received her first major break by “styling established artists.”
Mome’s birth on Black Love & Journey to Wellness will be the title of Mahlangu’s upcoming book. It required three years to complete. She has always been candid about the challenges she has faced as a member of her husband’s family.
“The purpose of writing this book was to increase black families’ level of awareness. Mahlangu stated, “I also want to raise awareness that compels us not only to act and think differently, but also to initiate a long-overdue road to healing.
The book by Mahlangu serves as a reminder that the black community has an infinite list of problems to address. “I used my journey to give 13 years of our very public relationship a real-life narrative.” We lived and wed on camera, yet 20 minutes is insufficient to tell the whole story. Some I chose to keep silent so I could write in depth about it.”
She states that she intended to join a new family and be happy, but this did not transpire. Her husband, “Tall Ass Mo” Mongezi Mahlangu, was always aware of the difficulties she faced and stuck by her side.
Mahlangu feels she would never have published the book if her husband had not been so supportive, given it contains intimate facts about their relationship.
“When I began posting about these difficulties on social media, the number of direct messages (DMs) I received from women experiencing the same situation made me realize I was not alone. I suddenly realized that 99.9% of women, somewhere in the world, are experiencing what I was experiencing.”
For a relationship to be healthy, according to Mahlangu, partners must be truthful and communicate frequently about matters they do not comprehend. She claims that the majority of couples go through a “dark phase” characterized by numerous miscarriages. They are occasionally dubbed derogatory terms, which is not uncommon.
By praying, focusing on myself, and filtering out the noise, I’ve been able to overcome the obstacles. I was required to learn how to prioritize. When I opted to focus on my recovery, I was forced to sever all ties with certain industry members.
When her husband faced adversity for several years, she was criticized by the entire nation for standing by him. As a woman who decided to marry him based on his character, Mahlangu stated, “I knew what he was capable of doing and what he was not capable of doing.”
“After our marriage, we endured thick and thin. If you leave your partner, you are also violating your vows. “At this time, you must remain in prayer,” she added.
Mome Mahlangu’s “Mome’s birth on Black Love & Journey to Wellness”
Extracts:
You cannot spend your life attempting to impress others because you will perish trying.
Our experiences have been unique, yet our struggles have been identical.
»Initiating a path to self-healing«