…By Larry John for TDPel Media.
Ifuennada, a former housemate of the Big Brother Naija reality show, has taken to social media to reveal why she is helping an ex-boyfriend to choose a wife.
According to a report by Naija News, Ifuennada disclosed that the ex had many women around him and was unable to decide whom to go on a date with.
She stated that she is helping her ex-boyfriend to evaluate and give her biased opinion on each of the girls he presents her with.
However, the final decision is his alone to make.
The reality TV star also maintained that her decision to stay friends with her ex-boyfriend was due to the fact that they had no business dating in the first place.
She added that they were great at being friends and had no form of intimacy back then.
Using her own case as an example, Ifuennada believes that some people can truly be friends with their exes without any feeling of bitterness and anger.
Ifuennada’s disclosure has generated reactions from social media users, with some applauding her for being mature and setting a good example of how to maintain a friendship with an ex-partner.
Others, however, criticized her for interfering in her ex-boyfriend’s life and being desperate to remain relevant.
Commentary:
Ifuennada’s decision to help her ex-boyfriend choose a wife has sparked debate on social media.
While some people have praised her for being mature and setting a good example of how to maintain a friendship with an ex-partner, others have criticized her for interfering in her ex-boyfriend’s life.
It is admirable that Ifuennada is able to maintain a friendship with her ex-boyfriend without any bitterness or anger.
This shows that people can end romantic relationships and still remain friends.
However, the decision to help her ex-boyfriend choose a wife may be seen by some as crossing a boundary, as it may create confusion and mixed feelings.
On the other hand, some people may argue that Ifuennada’s decision is not unusual, and that it is possible to be close to an ex-partner and help them make important decisions.
Ultimately, the decision to remain friends with an ex-partner and offer help and support is a personal one, and it is up to each individual to decide what works best for them.